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22 December 2013

Single? Enjoy!

You're going to have your heart broken, probably, more than once. Whether you were in love or lust - it doesn't really matter and don't waste your time trying to figure it out. The pain may last a bit longer if it was love, but the pain will die down either way. For you see, that person had to hurt you in order for the right one to heal the wound someday.


Enjoy your present single life. Rejoice in the fact that you are living for yourself and only yourself. Realize it was good while it lasted, but it's over now…and then move on.

Yes, I know, easier said than done but, done is what it is. Don't secretly hope for a reunion with this guy someday, for hope like that puts a force field around you that cannot be penetrated by the man of your dreams.

Find peace in this: The man of your dreams is coming your way.

It may be months or years before he finally reaches you, or he may even be waiting outside right now. Just be patient and don't look too hard for him.

Enjoy yourself and know that he will arrive when you least expect him.

10 comments:

  1. I really enjoyed this post, but it was just too obvious your gender bias. Some issues you need address is: are females only prone to heart breaks. I would expect gender neutral language from future post. Keep it up

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    1. Thank you Ibrahim for ur comment... I had just the females in mind as at the time I was writing. I will do just as u have suggested.

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  2. I loved,loved this. You wrote this? Its priceless! And so true!
    Let's Enjoy life,live life,until he arrives :)
    http://imperfectlyperfect92.wordpress.com

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    1. I'm glad you love it and finds it priceless...
      Yeah, enjoy life, wait for no one to fulfil your desire of being happy because happiness comes from within.

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  3. my dear well said,.
    happy holidays.

    ezechimereuchenna.blogspot.com

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  4. its inspirational, did u reali write dis? if yes, KUDOS!

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    1. Oh yes Esther! Thanks for reading and commenting...looking forward to seeing more of your comments.

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  5. The bottom line is, if life gives you Lemon make Lemonade it of it. Don't go about being moody. You have unlimited liberty to do things u wish to do when you are single, so why not just enjoy it? hey! don't make it a choice to be single because depression may set in, in d long run.

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    1. Depression may occur due to how you perceive your single life... Is it in the negative or positive perception? Would you rather not in the positive to lead a happy life?

      I appreciate your comment, thanks.

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